In answer to my last post, nope, I wasn’t typing, sorry about that. I’ve not updated my blog for the past six months for a variety of reasons. Probably the biggest is that I haven’t spent much time in Second Life at all during that time. The other is that I’ve simply not had anything that I felt like saying about Second Life. Lately, however, I’ve found myself reflecting on my experiences; wondering why I don’t think to log in much any more. There are many reasons, of course, but I’ve broken them into two broad categories. The first category is that *my* SL shifted and the second are my first life reasons for having a robust second life. I’m hoping to blather some about each in this and a subsequent blog post.
The ways in which I interacted within Second Life changed for me. One of the things that I felt when I started was an experience of place; that I was *there* through my avatar. As time passed, I found that Second Life became more like a glorified chat room. I would log in and my avatar would stay in one place while I would juggle conversations in IM. I recognize that this is my own fault; I certainly chose activities that led to that sort of interaction. While I chose those interactions, I can’t help but think that I followed some sort of arc of interaction with an avatar through the sorts of conversations I was having. Like any context, I got to know people over time. Where much of my conversation began as relating to the experience my avatar was having or interacting with the context of Second Life, with time more of my conversations were with friends about whatever we would feel like discussing. In this case, much of the conversation eventually gravitated toward first life. Talking more about first life reinforced those interactions and I realized that I was interacting through place and avatar less and less. Not that this was bad, but it was different and marked significant shifts in my experience with Second Life. The more I experienced it as a 3D chatroom, the less important Second Life felt to me as a place.
I can’t help but be curious if others have had this sort of experience. So I put it to you, dear readers, have you felt your lives blurring together the longer you were in SL and got to know people in more real ways? Did that lead to a change in experience for you? Have you done anything differently as a result?